How to effectively get rid of “Bullying”
By Anekan Thyagarajan
Student Writer - Goldsboro Elementary Magnet School
Have you ever found yourself grappling with the challenge of dealing with bullies? It’s a situation that many face, and while it might be tempting to confront them with a clever remark—like comparing them to ghosts, unseen and unheard—this tactic could easily backfire. Instead of intimidating the bully, it may leave you appearing irrational and escalate the conflict. So, what are the effective strategies to combat bullying? Let’s explore some constructive approaches that can empower individuals and foster a more supportive environment.
To begin with, one of the most powerful tools in addressing bullying is the ability to remain calm and composed. Ignoring the bully and walking away with confidence can significantly diminish their power. Bullies often thrive on fear and intimidation, seeking to provoke a reaction. By choosing to disengage, you send a clear message that their attempts to instill fear are ineffective. This brave act not only protects you but also demonstrates to others that standing strong in the face of adversity is possible. Remember, your confidence can be a formidable shield against their negativity. If the bullying continues despite your efforts to ignore it, it’s crucial to take a stand.
Secondly, speaking up assertively and firmly telling the bully to stop can be a powerful way to reclaim your voice. It’s important to communicate your feelings without resorting to aggression, as this can help de-escalate the situation. Additionally, if you ever feel threatened or unsafe, don’t hesitate to reach out to a trusted adult—be it a teacher, parent, or counselor. They can provide the support and guidance needed to navigate these challenging encounters.
Beyond individual responses, cultivating a culture of kindness and empathy is essential in combating bullying. By serving as a positive role model, you can inspire others to treat their peers with respect and compassion. Engaging in acts of kindness, whether big or small, can create ripples of positivity that counteract the negativity of bullying. Actively listening to your classmates and valuing their perspectives fosters an inclusive environment where everyone feels heard and appreciated. This collective effort can significantly reduce the prevalence of bullying in schools and communities.
In conclusion, while the challenge of bullying can feel overwhelming, there are effective strategies to address it. By bravely ignoring bullies, standing up for yourself, and promoting kindness, we can work together to create a safer and more supportive environment for all. Educators and parents play a vital role in this process, engaging children in meaningful discussions about the harmful effects of bullying and the importance of maintaining composure in the face of adversity. By addressing the various types of bullying and equipping young people with the tools to respond, we can foster a culture of respect and understanding that benefits everyone. So, let’s join forces and build a community where kindness prevails, and bullying becomes a thing of the past. Together, we can make a difference!
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Why is Reading/ELA Important
By Vishakan Thyagarajan - Student Writer, Goldsboro Elementary Magnet school
Reading and writing are not just things we do in school — they help us understand the world around us! When we read stories or write about our ideas, we learn how to share our thoughts and listen to others. Good reading and writing skills help us do better in school, make new friends, and even solve problems. ELA (English, Language, Arts) helps us grow smarter, kinder, and more creative every day!
1. Communication and Expression: Reading helps students expand their vocabulary and their comprehension. These skills help communication skills that are essential for success in various fields, including academics, careers, and personal relationships.
2. Critical Thinking and Problem Solving: ELA classes help students develop critical thinking skills, such as evaluating arguments, identifying biases, and making inferences. These skills encourage students to think creatively and imaginatively, fostering problem-solving abilities and innovation.
3. Academic Foundation and Lifelong Learning: ELA provides a strong foundation for learning in other subjects, as students develop reading comprehension and analytical skills. Reading allows students to learn new information, expand their knowledge base, and develop a lifelong love of learning.
4. Empathy and Understanding: ELA helps students learn about cultures and traditions of other countries in the world. ELA helps students consider multiple perspectives.
In conclusion, reading and ELA are crucial for developing strong communication, critical thinking, and overall academic success.
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“The dumbbell inside me”
By Saharsh Agarwal
Student Writer - Sanford Middle School
As an academically driven and multi-talented student, I take pride in combining leadership, creativity, and excellence in everything I do.
I need to do work
I need to start studying
but “it’s all useless effort,”
says the dumbbell inside me.
The games got boring.
Nothing good to play,
but nothing you want to be doing,
says the dumbbell inside me
I don’t know how
I’m supposed to live
But don’t quit now
says the dumbbell inside me
The reels are addicting
there are better things to watch
but it doesn’t let me get up
that dumbbell inside of me
A few feet away
lies my place of study
but no motivation today
because of this dumbbell inside me
So as the hours pass
and then comes time to sleep
I suddenly feel that at last
There’s no dumbbell inside me
But I look up at the clock
I see only five hours left to sleep
And when I again do doss,
I know that once again tomorrow
It will come—
That dumbbell inside of me.
